When my husband of 40 years started showing signs of dementia, I began documenting his ordeal. I should have realized that this exploration would include my challenges and that the changes in our relationship would be as intense as ours were individually. Every day brings new challenges, new photos, ways of trying to adapt.

The title of this project is a direct quote from Bob, who awakened one night in our bed and posed the question to me.

The exploration continues and will be continually updated here.